Often during a quarrel, we tell close people a lot of hurtful words. Having calmed down, we try to rectify the situation and forget that it is impossible to glue a broken cup. Top 10 phrases that can destroy relationships.
1. "I'm fine."
This innocuous expression at first glance is a trigger for many protracted conflicts. When everything inside is boiling, it is difficult to speak. And sometimes it seems that it is better to hold back the internal wave of anger by shouting “Get out!” I'm all right! ”But unfortunately it will not solve the existing problem. Moreover, the probability is high that a man hearing this will turn his back and throwing: “Ah, well, if you are all right ...” - he will simply leave the room. And then what remains? Start frenzied throwing things at his back? Run after him with a cry: “No, wait, we haven't finished yet ...”? All this will look stupid after the words: "I'm fine." Sitting and swallowing tears cursing the "male callousness" is also not an option. In other words, when something is wrong with you, any specifically stated claim is better than the words “Everything is fine with me!”.
2. "Vasya from your work and the house is better, and the car is bigger, and what have you achieved ?!"
In no case can not compare your man with others. You are not even justified by the fact that you simply hint that you expect great success from your husband. In the overwhelming majority of cases, you will hear the answer annoyed: “So go live with Vasya! And leave me alone! ” And what to do after such a phrase? You agree again at the impasse that you have created for yourself.
3. "What can you do ?!"
Depending on the situation in which the given phrase was uttered, a man can regard this as an attempt to take him "on the weak", and this in some cases can end very badly. So if the wife felt that during the quarrel her husband almost hit her, but he restrained herself, then the phrase that followed from her side: “What can you do !?” can provoke a real outburst of violence.
4. "I had to marry another ..."
Useless and offensive phrase, which usually begins insinuations about the ideal life with a fictional man who loves more, and his hands are golden. So you can not say categorically. After all, you yourself decided to marry just this man.
5. "You always do everything wrong ..."
You don’t dress like that, you don’t talk like that to my friends, you don’t drive like that. With these words you just poke a man face in the dirt. Understandably, no one will like to feel like a complete misunderstanding.
6. "As a man, you stand a little ..."
This expression can destroy even a very tender relationship. Reducing the sexual self-esteem of a man is the surest path to nedead in intimate life.
7. "I have never loved you," "I will live very well without you!"
So you devalue the importance of a man in your life. Most likely, from this point on you will begin “life without it”.
8. "You are exactly the same as your mother (father, brother ...)"
If you insult the husband's family, you will surely fall into disfavor. And do not be surprised that your husband will stop taking you to family dinners.
9. "Yes, why do you need someone like that ..."
Another phrase that shows disregard for the man with whom you live. Believe me, there will definitely be one that will need him and “such.”
10. “No sex if you don’t do as I want!”
Blackmail is practiced by all women, without thinking that manipulating a partner with the help of sex is a thankless and low case. Constantly hearing such phrases, the man will start looking for sex on the side and not the fact that he will not find it.
